Whether you’re looking for a fun fling or to find your perfect love match, here are a few helpful hints for the turn-ons and turn-offs of each of the 12 signs of the zodiac, designed to demystify your dating compatibility!
Turn Ons: The way to an Aries’ heart is through his or her head.
Having a passion for life is an incredibly attractive trait and will draw people towards you and show them that you’re a cut above the average guy.
So if you’ve got a passion for surfing, photography or playing the electric guitar don’t be afraid to share it with your date.
You might be super-proud of how much you drink, how big a fish you can catch, or that all-important ball cap, but we’re women.
We usually look at a guy with a ball cap on and think ‘bald and insecure,’ see the beer in your hand and think ‘alcoholic’ and see the fish and go ‘ewwww! If it says she’s a triathlete, and her idea of a perfect date is going for a long scenic bike ride together through the mountains, please, please don’t respond if you loathe the idea of physical activity, and your main interests are drinking, fishing, or watching storage locker tv marathons. If you’re serious about finding a woman online, then for heaven’s sake, put a picture up!
You’ll be surprised to see how interested she’ll be in what makes you tick.
DON’T post a picture of yourself from your wedding.
That being said, I interviewed a group of single and married men this weekend about their dating experiences. A girl who is constantly seeing the negative in everything or complaining about little things is a red flag to a guy.
As I spoke with them, they expressed the major things that turn them off in the dating phase. He wants to spend his time with someone who is refreshing and positive to the soul. No one likes to be around someone who brings them down.
It can also be an unnerving exercise in trial and error in deciphering just what makes your latest love interest tick.
However, knowing your special someone’s birthdate may give you a couple clues as to their turn-ons and turn-offs.
Before you put on a pair of spectacles and start quoting Nietzche, keep in mind that Aries prefers their intellectuals a little more well-rounded and less one-dimensional.